49
year-old resident ‘active member of
the Woodland Villa community,” says
DOC
Wednesday, August
24, 2005 -- Craig Anderson
While it’s not completely uncommon for
nursing homes to take in younger residents,
there usually have to be exceptional circumstances
or other appropriate reasons to justify permanent
residence.
Woodland Villa’s administration has
made exceptions in three cases, and most recently
in allowing Gerald Forgues, who has an intellectual
disability, to stay as a long term resident
at the home.
Gerald has been in ten different group homes,
says Deb Kitchen, Director of Care, experiences
that were detrimental. He stayed for a while
with his mother in Cornwall, but ailing health
forced her to put Gerald in the home, assuring
he would be cared for in the event she no
longer could.
Gerald and Woodland have been a near-perfect
fit, says Deb, and his recent commitment to
being an ‘active member of the home’s
community’ has convinced her that the
relationship is mutually beneficial. Gerald,
who wanted to be more involved in the daily
routines of Woodland, had Deb design a daily
duties schedule for him so he could assist
in chores and show his appreciation for the
place he has been most happy at.
“It was a care plan that we put together
with him, we asked him what he would like
to do” she says, “but he wanted
to see it in writing. He wanted to feel like
he was accomplishing something.
Some of the duties he was already doing,
but now he gets recognition too,” says
Deb, “and I think he feels a greater
sense of belonging.”
Gerald, who asserts he “likes to keep
occupied” by doing chores, is relieved
to finally be in an environment where he is
appreciated and fully accepted.
“This is the best place I have lived,”
he says, “the hospitality is good and
the people are friendly.”
Gerald, hampered by the radiation poisoning
he suffered when he was receiving treatment
for cancer of the ear, uses a walker and therefore
most of his duty choices are not too labour
intensive. But he is physically capable despite
the injury, says Deb, who adds that his “gait
is a little bit off.”
He is fond of gardening, he says, and is
currently maintaining a cucumber and tomato
garden for the home. He is also fond of one
housecleaning staff member, whom he helps
daily, splitting sweeping duties in the dining
room.
“He is extremely happy here but [as
administrators] we have to think ‘he
could be here for another forty years in long
term care,’” says Deb.
Two other residents – also developmentally
challenged, Deb says she “can’t
see them out in the community” –
give further testament to exceptions made
under the right circumstances. One, a 53 year
old man, has been in the home prior to Deb’s
arrival some 18 years ago, and was, like Gerald,
a refugee from a group home and for a brief
time immobilized by an injury, in his case
a broken hip.
“We’re basically his family,”
she says.